If you think that your bedroom action could use a boost, you’re not alone. Most people are craving more excitement in bed; they are looking for more ways to pleasure their woman and get her completely satisfied. Having better sex doesn’t necessarily mean spending hours and hours of licking or adding a vibrator.
Without further ado, here are some tips for having better sex.
Relax – I put this first because I believe it’s something that’s very important, don’t time the sex; It’s not a 10 minutes and we are done here I need to get back to whatever. It’s about setting up the right kind of environment which will enhance pleasure and make her feel safe enough to let go. You should relax and take your time. Take a shower this is small but very important.
Sensual Massages – Give each other full-body massages; throw in some oil even if it’s not as much as what you see in porn videos. Touch and skin to skin contact is the most crucial thing for bonding and intimacy it releases a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin, and ignites her sex drive. Take time to massage her shoulder, back, buttocks and inner thigh’s near the vagina but do not touch the vagina just yet.
Talk – We mentioned in our previous article that women are more verbal i.e Unlike men, they easily aroused by what they hear than what they see so tell her she looks great, tell her that you love the shape of her butt. Start off easy with neutral dirty-talk like how you are enjoying the act before you graduate to how you feel inside her.
Tease her – In foreplay and massage learn to tease her, fondle with the breasts and circle the nipples but don’t touch, massage the inner tighs close to the vagina for some time before you play with the clit but don’t insert a finger. Use your penis to rub her clit but don’t insert just yet. Go slowly at the start then stop now go oral. She would go crazy and practically pull you inside her.
Listen – while you both are not having sex bring up topics that would help you learn how best to pleasure her, what her erogenous zones are, find out what your partner wants. Tell her to feel free, as well as guide your hand or head to where she’d like it to go.
Kiss during an orgasm – It adds an emotional intensity, you can almost feel your partner’s orgasm as shockwaves through you
Sex positioning is important, add a pillow in there. A pillow can modify most positions by slightly altering the angle of penetration, and that can make a huge difference. Positions like the missionary, the coital alignment technique, and spooning are perfect as both of your bodies are in almost full contact with each other. There are a lot of other sex positions that give more stimulation to the clitoris.
Don’t ignore sexual problems like Premature Ejaculation, Vaginal Dryness, Loss of libido and Erectile dysfunction.
A handy man’s job is learned on the job, not taught so practice, practice, practice.